Owning Our Stories and Personal Experiences: A Journey of Resilience and Transformation
In a recent episode of the Obehi Podcast, a powerful narrative unfolded, intertwining the lives of two individuals who faced the ultimate confrontation with mortality. Obehi Ewanfoh, the host, shared his harrowing near-death experience in Verona, Italy, while Professor Oluwafemi Esan recounted his miraculous recovery after being clinically dead for 15 minutes. These stories are not just personal tales of survival; they are profound lessons in resilience, transformation, and the power of owning and sharing our experiences.
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The Power of Personal Stories
Owning our stories means embracing and sharing our personal narratives with authenticity and courage. This concept is rooted in the understanding that our experiences shape our identity and purpose.
Here is eh full podcast interview: My Encounter with Death & Resurrection – Professor Oluwafemi Esan, Prof, Of Transpersonal Psychology
Historically, storytelling has been a fundamental part of human culture, serving as a means of preserving history, teaching lessons, and fostering a sense of community. Psychological research underscores the benefits of storytelling, highlighting its role in processing trauma, fostering emotional connections, and promoting mental health.
By sharing our stories, we not only heal ourselves but also inspire and connect with others.
Verona 2017, the near-death experience of Obehi Ewanfoh
In 2017, Obehi Ewanfoh found himself in a critical condition in Verona, Italy. Struggling with severe health issues, he was placed in a medically induced coma to stabilize his condition.
The decision to induce a coma was a desperate measure to save his life as he teetered on the brink of death. “I was in a place where every moment felt like it could be my last,” Obehi recalls.
The journey to recovery was long and arduous, marked by physical pain and emotional turmoil. However, this experience reshaped Obehi’s perspective on life. It was during this period of vulnerability and introspection that the idea for the Obehi Podcast was born.
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Determined to create a platform for sharing authentic stories of resilience and transformation, Obehi dedicated himself to helping others own their stories and find strength in their experiences.
May 2024, Professor Oluwafemi Esan’s Encounter with Death
Professor Oluwafemi Esan, a prominent figure in Transpersonal Psychology, had his own brush with death. While attending a conference in New Jersey this May, precisely the 22nd of May 2024, he suffered a massive heart attack.
“I remember giving a presentation and then sitting down,” he shared during the podcast interview. “The next thing I knew, I was looking at my body on the floor. I had left my physical form.”
Clinically dead for 15 minutes, Professor Esan’s experience was nothing short of miraculous. After undergoing open-heart surgery, he made a remarkable recovery.
Reflecting on his near-death experience, he speaks of a profound spiritual encounter and a renewed sense of purpose. “I call this my experience with death and resurrection,” he says. “It has deepened my understanding of life and strengthened my resolve to help others through Transpersonal Psychology.”
Insights from the Interview
The interview between Obehi and Professor Esan was a deeply emotional and insightful exchange. Both men shared their experiences with raw honesty, highlighting the transformative power of near-death encounters.
Obehi revealed details he had never shared publicly before, describing how his brush with death in 2017 had profoundly influenced his mission to encourage others to own and share their stories.
Professor Esan’s account of his spiritual journey during those 15 minutes of clinical death added another layer of depth to the conversation. “I saw my body on the floor, but I was not afraid,” he recalled. “It was as if I had entered a different realm of consciousness.”
His reflections on the intersection of spirituality and psychology provided valuable insights into the human experience and the potential for growth through adversity.
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Responses and Reflections from the Audience
The powerful narratives shared in this podcast episode resonated deeply with the audience, eliciting heartfelt responses from notable figures. Dr. Eileen, CO Chief Anyanwụ Ụtụtụ, commented on the transformative power of faith and resilience.
“Obehi’s dedication to his work is truly inspiring,” she noted. “His story reminds us that even in the darkest moments, we can find strength and purpose.”
Gloria Tinu (Ogundipe) Ogunbadejo, an ancestral healing coach, expressed her gratitude for the shared experiences. “E ku ewu,” she said in Yoruba, congratulating both men for evading danger and praying for their continued safety.
She emphasized the healing power of authentic storytelling, noting that sharing our stories can provide solace and inspiration to many.
Dr. Marcia Thomas, a leadership coach, highlighted the spiritual dimensions of the narratives. “This episode ignites gratitude and a consciousness of using time responsibly to do what truly matters,” she said. “No one can stop God’s purpose for your life.” Her words underscored the profound impact that personal stories can have on our understanding of purpose and destiny.
The Healing Power of Storytelling
Storytelling is a therapeutic tool that allows individuals to process their experiences, make sense of their emotions, and connect with others on a deeper level. Research in psychology supports this, showing that storytelling can reduce stress, enhance empathy, and foster a sense of belonging.
By sharing their stories, Obehi and Professor Esan not only healed themselves but also created a space for others to find healing and inspiration.
Creating safe spaces for storytelling is crucial. Platforms like the Obehi Podcast offer a supportive environment where individuals can share their narratives without fear of judgment.
These spaces encourage authenticity and vulnerability, fostering a sense of community and mutual support. As Obehi often emphasizes, “Your story matters, and it has the power to heal not just you but also those who hear it.”
Practical Steps to Owning and Sharing Your Story
Owning and sharing your story can be a transformative process, but it requires courage and introspection. Here are some practical steps to help you on this journey:
- Identify Your Story: Reflect on your experiences and identify the moments that have shaped you. Consider how these events have influenced your beliefs, values, and actions.
- Overcome Fear and Vulnerability: Sharing personal stories can be intimidating, but it’s important to embrace vulnerability. Remember that your story has the power to inspire and heal others.
- Choose Your Platform: Decide where and how you want to share your story. This could be through a podcast, blog, social media, or community gatherings. Choose a platform that feels authentic to you.
- Practice Authenticity: Be honest and open about your experiences. Authenticity resonates with people and helps create a deeper connection.
- Engage with Your Audience: Encourage feedback and interaction from your audience. This creates a sense of community and allows you to see the impact of your story.
Conclusion on Owning Our Stories and Personal Experiences
The transformative power of owning and sharing personal stories cannot be overstated. As demonstrated by the experiences of Obehi Ewanfoh and Professor Oluwafemi Esan, our stories are not just personal narratives; they are powerful tools for healing, connection, and inspiration.
By embracing our experiences and sharing them with others, we can create a ripple effect of resilience and transformation.
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In a world where many feel more and more isolated and disconnected, personal stories remind us of our shared humanity.
They inspire us to overcome adversity, find purpose in our struggles, and connect with others on a deeper level. As you reflect on your own experiences, remember that your story matters. Own it, share it, and watch as it transforms not only your life but also the lives of those who hear it.
Want to learn more about storytelling? Start by downloading the first chapter of The Storytelling Mastery.
