How to Transform Self-Doubt into a Powerful Professional Brand: Insights from The Obehi Podcast with Alaseidiema Atedoghu
Do you ever feel held back by a persistent inner voice telling you that you’re “not good enough,” no matter what you achieve? This self-sabotaging belief can keep you from seizing opportunities and realizing your true potential. But what if you could transform that narrative, turning your unique story and skills into an undeniable asset?
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In a powerful episode of The Obehi Podcast, host Obehi Ewanfoh sat down with Alaseidiema Atedoghu, a Growth Catalyst and Productivity Strategist, to explore this very transformation.
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Alaseidiema shared her personal journey from battling self-doubt to embracing her identity as a “Premium Value Creator.” Her story is a masterclass in how to own your story, shift your mindset, and build a life and legacy of impact.
What is a “Premium Value Creator?”
The title “Premium Value Creator” wasn’t just a label Alaseidiema invented; it was one she earned and claimed. Working in a traditionally male-dominated industry, she asked herself a critical question: “What can I do differently? What can I bring to the table?”
Instead of just being busy, she focused on being relevant and resourceful. She took the initiative, creating new administrative processes and advocating for valuable training opportunities.
She became a central hub for connection and collaboration, a person who could link the right people with the right resources to get things done. “I see myself as a hub,” she explains. “I may not be the one to execute every task, but I can connect the right people and resources to achieve the desired outcome.”
When her boss referred to a colleague with this exact phrase, Alaseidiema recognized it as a perfect description of her mission and claimed it for herself. This is a brilliant example of Obehi Ewanfoh’s “Story to Asset Framework” in action, where you consciously shape your narrative and experiences into a powerful professional brand.
The Mindset Shift: Overcoming Your Inner Critic
Alaseidiema’s drive to help others comes from a deeply personal place. Despite a history of academic success, she spent years paralyzed by an internal feeling of inadequacy. “I would simply tell myself, ‘It’s not for my type of person,’” she admits.
This limiting belief, combined with her introverted nature, kept her from reaching for bigger opportunities.
The change began with a commitment to self-awareness. By objectively looking at the evidence of her accomplishments, she realized the “not good enough” narrative was a hindrance, not a reality. This personal breakthrough ignited her passion for helping others dismantle their own self-sabotaging beliefs.
Based on her journey, Alaseidiema offers a multi-faceted approach to engineering a true mindset shift:
- Embrace Self-Awareness: The first step is to recognize and name the limiting belief that is holding you back. You cannot change what you do not acknowledge.
- Invest in Upskilling: Actively seek knowledge. Alaseidiema took courses on mindset and personal development to acquire the tools she needed for change.
- Build a Supportive Community: Surround yourself with people who offer honest, constructive feedback. You need allies who see your potential and help you focus on your strengths, not just friends who offer empty praise.
- Practice Positive Self-Talk: You must consciously counter the negative voice. When the thought “I’m not good enough” arises, build a new habit of responding with positive affirmations based on your actual achievements.
- Create Accountability: Share your goals with someone you trust. The simple act of having to report your progress can provide a powerful incentive to follow through.
- Be Open to Feedback: Growth is impossible in an echo chamber. Be willing to hear the truth about where you can improve, as this is essential for moving from your roots to relevance.
Breaking Free: Your Background Does Not Define Your Future
Many people stay stuck in their comfort zone, not because it’s fulfilling, but because it’s familiar. This is driven by a fear of making mistakes and being vulnerable. As Alaseidiema notes, people often cling to the idea that “the devil you know is better than the angel you don’t.” However, the true danger of the comfort zone is stagnation.
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Often, our background and upbringing create these comfort zones. We internalize limiting beliefs from our environment, ideas like, “Nobody in this family has ever dared to do that.” We accept these invisible scripts without question.
Alaseidiema challenges us to realize that we don’t have to wait for a savior, we can be the one to break the pattern and challenge the status quo.
Your Journey, Your Pace
Alaseidiema’s final message is one of radical self-acceptance and patient progress. “You cannot be you-er than you,” she advises. Be authentic. Learn from role models, but ultimately, carve your own path.
Understand that personal growth is a marathon, not a sprint. People give up because they expect overnight change, but true transformation is gradual. Focus on progress over perfection.
The struggle is part of the process, it’s what gives our achievements meaning. Because the journey is difficult, don’t be afraid to seek help and build connections. As Alaseidiema reminds us, “You can’t always do it on your own. Take it one day at a time.”
To dive deeper into Alaseidiema’s insights on becoming a Premium Value Creator, listen to the full interview on The Obehi Podcast. For more inspiring stories and resources on personal and professional growth, explore over 2,000 articles at AClasses Media.
